The time has come for me to present to you my 23 Goals for my 23rd Year. I am really excited about these goals. I have spent quite a few hours pondering this goals and making them better. I really tried to make my goals actual things that I could attain. There are only two “fluffy” “immeasurable” goals, which are: to be more content and be a good wife. All the other goals I can actually see if I have met them or not.
I hope you will keep me accountable with these goals and maybe I’ll inspire you to make your own. I also got so excited once I finished writing my goals that I didn’t want to wait until February 25th to start working on them, so I’m going to start February 1st, just to get a head start.
My goals are split up into separate categories: daily, weekly, monthly, and one time goals. I figured that this would help make them more manageable and easier to keep track of.
So, here are my 23 Goals and a little bit about why I picked each one:
1. Be content with where I am in life, don’t wish my life away, flourish where I am
I wrote this goal because of the blog post I wrote yesterday about a really good message I heard that really moved me. I realized that I have been viewing this stage in my life as an “inbetweeen” transition stage and so I wasn’t investing here. Click here to read more about flourishing.
2. Be a good, supportive, encouraging, loving wife to Adam
Even though I do not mean to, sometimes I take Adam for granted and I know that. So this year I am going to try and not do that. And I also want to be more supportive and encouraging of his work in seminary. Even when I don’t get to see him because he has a bunch of homework.
3. Do one thing to clean the house
Too often, I come home from work and I make dinner and then I just relax the rest of the night, which means that by the end of the week our house is in shambles. This year I want to try and be better about doing at least one thing a day to make cleaning the house more manageable and help it to look better more often.
4. Keep a food and fitness diary to help me remember to be more healthy
I don’t know how many times last year I said I was going to “be more healthy” well now I am going to keep track of everything I am doing and hopefully that will make me more mindful. Here is an example of my food and fitness diary:
5. Call my mother
My mother and I have never been “best of friends” but more and more I have come to rely on her advice and her support. Something about growing older I guess. I want to be more intentional about calling her just to talk and to make our relationship even stronger.
6. Write a thank you note to someone I am grateful for
I am thankful for a lot of people in my life, but I fall short in expressing this to them. I want to be more intentional in thanking the people in my life that mean a lot to me.
7. Have intentional date nights with Adam. Start with at least once a month
This goes back to the being intentional with my relationship with Adam. I want to intentionally spend time with him, doing something together, once a month. This will be a time to relax and connect with each other because our lives can get so busy.
8. Find a craft or something creative to do
I thrive on being able to be creative. I don’t want to lose time with myself because of how busy I get. So this goal is two-fold. One, I get to express myself through crafting and two, I get to enjoy some time by myself, relaxing.
9. Have someone over for dinner
Adam and I are always saying to each other how we would like to get to know a couple better, or spend more time with our friends, but then we never do it. So this goal is to help both of us set time aside and focus on building relationships with people.
10. Do something with my sister (her coming over to do laundry doesn’t count)
My sister and I have not always had a good relationship. You might say that we strongly disliked each other for most of our lives growing up. But now that she is in college, we have become much better friends and I want to cultivate that relationship, not just when she needs to use our washer and dryer.
11. Finish Financial Peace University with Adam and save some money
Adam and I are getting ready to start our third week of FPU tomorrow, and we are trying to really be committed to the principles we are learning and really do some savings. We need discipline, quite frankly. We need to learn how to save better so we can be ready when emergencies come up. I am excited for the future peace to come in our lives.
12. Take a vacation–or have a weekend getaway trip somewhere we have never been
I just want to be able once this year to go on a getaway and relax with my husband. I want us to be able to do something fun that we both enjoy and get some time away from everything going on. So hopefully we can make this happen.
13. Finish my Best Picture movie list
I have been working towards this goal for almost two years now, and gosh darn it, this year I’m going to finish it. As of right now, I only have 14 more movies to watch and two on my shelf at home waiting to be viewed. To keep track of my list visist: Best Picture Movie List.
14. Finish reading Anna Karenina
I don’t know how it happend, but I got it in my head that I would really like to read this book. Luckily, it was free on my Kindle. So I have been reading it for a few months now, and it is good, but it’s just so stinkin long! It will probably take me the whole year to finish it.
15. Plant flowers in the flower beds outside my apartment
I love flowers. And I have always wanted to garden but have never had a place to do it. Our apartment at Emmanuel has flower beds in the front and back and I would really like to plant flowers in them this year. And I also think the process of weeding them, which is inevitable, will be rather relaxing.
16. Read through the whole Bible again
My freshman year of college I read through the whole Bible, and it was an amazing experience for me. I have not been able to do this since then, so I wanted to do it again. The last few years I have not been devoted to reading my Bible every day, and I really want to get back to that. To keep track of my reading click here.
17. Play Eclipse with Adam
Eclipse is Adam’s new favorite game, probably in the whole world, but it intimidates me because it is intense. And also because they tell you up front that it will take 30 minutes per person playing to play this game. That is what I call a significant time committment. So my goal is to play this game once this year so I know what all the fuss is about.
18. Finish watching Prison Break
I started watching Prison Break sometime in December and I absolutely love it! I haven’t even finished Season 1 yet, but in the next year my goal is to finish the whole series.
19. Learn how to knit
I learned how to crochet back in my freshman year of college. And this year I wanted to learn something new, and since I have never attempted to knit in my entire life, I thought it would be a fun thing to learn.
20. Go to a sporting event or a concert (where you have to buy tickets)
It has been forever since I have gone to a concert that wasn’t a Milligan College concert, and Adam and I have not been to a sporting event that wasn’t at Milligan in a long time either. So I thought it would be fun for us to seek out one of these this year, or maybe even both!
21. Take a cooking class
I have discovered that I really love to cook. I want to get better at it. So, this year I will have my eyes peeled for classes in the area so I can get better at cooking.
22. Go one weekend (one with good weather) without watching TV, movies, or tygetting on the computer–a weekend “unplugged”
I want to do this to see if I can do this. It seems that on the weekend I plop down on the couch and stay there for a majority of the days of my weekend. That’s just sad. Weekends should be for doing things I can’t do during the week or that I don’t have time to do during the week.
23. Read a biography of someone that I am not a fan of so I can learn more about them
I was trying to think of one more goal and this one popped into my head. I don’t have a person in mind just yet, but we will see who pops up this year.
Here’s to a year of checking off goals!
To keep track of my progress throughout the year, click on the 23 for 23 page on the side bar or click here.